Remembering beloved pets is an important part of life for many people. Pets are often viewed as family members these days, and we need to make space to grieve them when they die. Pet memorials are becoming more common as people seek ways to remember, honor, and say good-bye to much loved pets.
On a recent trip to Scotland I visited Edinburgh Castle and saw a great example of how they are remembering beloved pets. The castle has been and continues to be home to military personnel. They have established a special area of the castle grounds devoted to remembering beloved pets of the men and women serving there.
When seeking to honor and grieve a pet, having a space like this can be a comfort to their owners. It provides a physical space to visit to remember their pet, and allow them to feel closer to them. Another way to ease the pain of losing a pet is to hold a memorial service for them. Just as we do for the important people in our lives, a pet memorial offers a dedicated space and time to celebrate the life of a companion of many years.
A pet memorial can include shared memories of good times with the pet. You can gather mementos of their life – a favorite toy or blanket, their collar and leash, or even some of their favorite treats. These items can be used to prompt stories of your pet’s personality, shared experiences and adventures, and their favorite things.
Just like a memorial for a person, the best pet memorials are personalized, focus on both their life, acknowledge their passing, and offer a time for shared grief and support as you say your final good-byes. Remembering beloved pets with a pet memorial can help you process the very real feelings of grief you experience when they cross the rainbow bridge.