Monthly Archives: November 2022


Speaking Gratitude at Thanksgiving

Speaking gratitude at Thanksgiving takes just a few moments and is so important to do. The holiday is the perfect opportunity to pause and reflect on what you are grateful for. There are many people in my world I would like to voice appreciation for this year.

I would like to thank all the couples I married this year. Whether it was a simple Certificate Signing ceremony or a Full Custom ceremony, you have each touched my heart with your stories.

Appreciation also goes to all couples I’ve married in previous years who have referred their family and friends to me. This is one of the primary ways people learn of my services. The confidence you show in me with your recommendations is key to my success.

I would also like to thank the other wedding professionals who share my name with their clients. From venue managers to DJs, from photographers to florists, your appreciation for the ceremonies I craft means more than I can say.

I would also like to thank the people who support me and the work I do. First on this list is my husband who handles all my audio needs and drives me to ceremonies. He also drives me to close out the paperwork following ceremonies and serves as a witness when needed. He’s shared my journey as a celebrant since I began in 2009 and I truly could not do this work without him.

I also have a wonderful group of friends that I call on when a couple needs witnesses to their marriage. These friends join me to listen to the couple’s profession of love and commitment, and sign the paperwork to make the marriage legal. Couples new to our area, or who want a truly private wedding have requested that I provide witnesses and my friends have stepped up to support these strangers – a true gift in the name of love.

I’ve just completed my last scheduled ceremony for 2022 (at least for the moment), making it the perfect time to reflect on the year. Speaking gratitude at Thanksgiving – and throughout the year – is an easy thing to do. It takes a little time and a little thought, and provides the opportunity to say a big Thank You to so many people. Wishing you all a Happy Thanksgiving filled with love and gratitude.


Unconventional Wedding Choices

Unconventional wedding choices are yet another way to make your wedding day uniquely yours. If you are a bit unconventional as a couple, and traditional weddings just aren’t for you, I encourage you to make choices that feel authentic for you.

I recently had two Halloween weddings where couples used the holiday to express themselves in different, but meaningful (to them) ways. One couple dressed all in black, taking a more gothic approach to the day. And the other couple dressed in costume, bringing some whimsy to what can be a more serious, though celebratory day. In each case the couples were being true to themselves as they marked a milestone moment in their lives.

Costumed Halloween Wedding
Unconventional wedding choices

I’ve also had couples express their individuality in a different way. One couple chose dressy, but nontraditional, colorful attire for their ceremony, while another couple opted for dark colors and their favorite heavy metal music to accompany their wedding.

Colorful wedding attire
Colorful wedding attire
Unconventional wedding choices
Unconventional wedding choices

Some couples enjoy the more typical wedding traditions, and that’s great, too. White dresses, traditional ceremonies and rituals all have their place. They can be the exactly what some couples want. But unconventional wedding choices have their place, too. Feel free to modify or discard wedding traditions if they don’t fit you. Embrace choices to make the day truly reflect who you are and the marriage you are beginning.