Happy Valentine’s Day! This day, set aside to remember the people we love, can be expensive, stressful, and lonely, or fun, exciting, and memorable. Some people will receive cards today, some candy or flowers. Some people will share dinner out, or dinner in, or a flute of champagne. Some people will receive a heartfelt “I Love You” or a sweet kiss. Some people may even receive a proposal and an engagement ring. Regardless of how you celebrate with your special someone this year, remember to share affection with those you love, not only on Valentine’s Day, but often throughout the year.
For two couples I am working with, today is also their wedding day. We’ll witness these couples making promises to each other, and beginning new chapters in their stories. For them Valentine’s Day will always be extra special as they celebrate both their love and their marriage.
I also encourage you to look beyond that special someone in your life to the people around you who may not find Valentine’s Day such a wonderful experience. Maybe they looking for a special someone to love. Maybe they have lost their special someone and find Valentine’s Day a difficult reminder of what they used to have. Maybe they are elderly and are seeing their peers pass with each year, and are feeling very alone in the world. If you know of anyone who will be alone today, take a moment to reach out with a text, phone call or e-mail. Let them know you are thinking of them, or care about them, or value them, or love them. It takes only a moment, but can mean so very much.
Wishing everyone a Happy Valentine’s Day and much love in your lives.